The Price of Praise
In the world in which we live service to others is a one-way street. At work, in traffic, even at church helping others is seen as one’s duty by server and served alike. Assumed failure, at any point in service, is considered by those being served as an attack on their self-worth.
It doesn’t seem fair---and it’s not. But what happens next time a policeman pulls you over; a waitress bungles your order; or you have to wait in line? Do you feel offended or slighted? The entitlement mentality rampant in our society is deeply rooted in the preservation of self image. This kind of thinking has put a chip on everyone’s shoulder. How can the world not see our unmet desires; our righteous expectations and our right to be served?
This may be the way of the world, but it should not be so among Christians. To follow the example left by Christ, we are to serve not be served. Moreover, the scripture is clear, we are to expect no praise for helping others. It is an unprofitable servant who does only his duty.
That being said, consider for a moment the power in giving to another praise for his efforts--even if they fall short of our expectations. When the servant is praised for his application to duty, he is built up, empowered and encouraged to greater heights. The giver of such praise honors the Lord, his brother who serves, and himself. Herein is the command to build up one another in the faith made a reality. The Kingdom of God is not in word, but in power. Application of the truth is better than possession of it this is why faith without works is dead.
Praising another person takes nothing away from us. On the other hand, belittling others serves only to reveal just how small and petty we can be.
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